The Gay Singles Mixer

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Elevate Your Dating Life.

Gay men in Los Angeles! Are you ready to transform your dating life? The Unitē app is creating an entirely new dating experience to help you grow AND find love.

But first, get the full experience by downloading the Unitē app and learn more about our new gay singles experience below!

Why Our Singles Mixer Is Different?

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A New Gay Singles Experience In LA

Finding love is equal parts timing, self-awareness, AND access to individuals who are equally ready to find love!

Our Gay Singles Mixer, hosted by the Unitē app, combines all of these elements for an entirely new singles mixer.

Born from the desire to create and curate a more elevated experience for meeting available gay men, we invite you to join us to grow, connect, and push past boundaries that may be holding you back from what you truly desire -- a genuine connection, love, and partnership.

The Singles Mixer Format

Our Gay Singles Mixer is equal parts fun and growth. While we can't guarantee love at the first mixer (but we'll try!), we do aim to help you grow and move closer to finding love. While each mixer will be different, here are the four elements we incorporate into every event.

Socialize

The first part of our event allows attendees to check-in, get comfortable in the space, & start to open their energy to calm any nerves

Speed Dating

Part two allows attendees to break the ice, meet new individuals, and have one-on-one time together in five, 10-minute rounds

Mix

The third part lets attendees lead with chemistry and talk to those who catch their attention -- we encourage attendees to practice conversing with others in a safe and welcoming environment where all are there with the same intention

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The final part of our signature event allows attendees to get feedback from the experts, ask any questions that will help them on their journey to finding love, & we'll raffle off some gifts

The Location

OR Bar WeHo

OR Bar in West Hollywood is a unique destination inspired by the late disco era. With a French disco influence from 1977 to 1983, OR Bar is the perfect backdrop for our Saltburn-Inspired Singles Mixer and Speed Dating experience hosted by the Unitē app. With hand-crafted cocktails and a curated singles experience with close to 70 gay, bi, and queer men this bespoke and carefully curated experience will transform how you approach dating and finding love.

Meet The Hosts

A Singles Mixer with a Psychological Approach

What has been holding you back from finding the relationship you desire? The Unitē App and Nicholas Berry Psychotherapy bring an element of growth and understanding to every Gay Singles Mixer experience. At every event, you have access to the knowledge and experts who can best support you in creating breakthroughs and finding compatible relationships.

Nicholas Berry Psychotherapy

With an emphasis on exploring how one currently connects with themself and others, Nicholas Berry is an LGBTQIA+ affirming therapist who is passionate about helping gay and queer men identify underlying factors that prevent them from having deep and meaningful relationships in order to build awareness, insight, and connection.

The Unitē App

Unitē leverages the power of community to deliver the best experiences to support the wellness and mental health of LGBTQ+ individuals, our allies, and friends. Discover the power of community. #ComeTogether #Unite

Bryan Kosarek, Founder of Unitē

Why We're Building Unitē

There's no handbook given to us when we come out. Let alone finding love! The #1 reason many people don't seek out expert support is they want to explore self-help first. This has left much of our community feeling lonely, isolated, and navigating life's challenges on their own. Even when we share similar goals and challenges. At Unitē, we want to change this.

A True Wellness Platform

A first of its kind, the Unitē app offers more relevant and constantly evolving LGBTQ+ content and experts to support individuals as they grow. The result, more ways for the LGBTQ+ community to approach well-being, happiness, and challenges as they navigate their life journey. The goal is for individuals to discover how community can be one of the best forms of self-care.

Free Access to Unitē

The Unitē app will always provide free and accessible content to LGBTQ+ communities. Explore over 300 life and LGBTQ-centric categories to support your mental wellness and gain new insights. Our goal is to curate the best LGBTQ+ wellness experts and content to create a community-driven support experience.

First Scalable Support Platform

Our goal is to build the first scalable wellness support platform that starts well before 1-on-1 crisis management is needed and grows with the user. Unitē is a technology platform that helps LGBTQ+ individuals discover, develop, and cultivate wellness support with peers and experts.

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Come Together.

At Unitē, we're continually developing new partnerships and technology to support the LGBTQ+ community. Whether in-app or in-person, we look forward to cultivating new experiences to support our community in a new way.

#StrongerTogether

From the Community...

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"Brilliant concept! It’s like Oprah meets LinkedIn with a splash of Tinder."

"I had never really considered turning to an app or community like Unitē, but I am so glad that I did! Sometimes there are answers sitting right in front of you, but you have to speak with the right people or Mentors who can pull them into sight."

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